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		<title>Secret map of wealth &#8212;     दौलत का गुप्त नक्शा</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Universal BLUEPRINT for WEALTH: How to Tap into Abundance Beyond Money &#124; Do you believe wealth is just a bank balance or a pile of cash? What if true abundance extended far beyond money, encompassing health, happiness, peace, and &#8230; <a href="http://www.bestoutofyou.com/personal-development/570/secret-map-of-wealth-%e0%a4%a6%e0%a5%8c%e0%a4%b2%e0%a4%a4-%e0%a4%95%e0%a4%be-%e0%a4%97%e0%a5%81%e0%a4%aa%e0%a5%8d%e0%a4%a4-%e0%a4%a8%e0%a4%95%e0%a5%8d%e0%a4%b6%e0%a4%be/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>The Universal BLUEPRINT for WEALTH: How to Tap into Abundance Beyond Money |</p>
<p>Do you believe wealth is just a bank balance or a pile of cash? What if true abundance extended far beyond money, encompassing health, happiness, peace, and purpose? Join us on a mystical journey as we unveil &#8220;The Universal Blueprint for Wealth&#8221; – an ancient wisdom &#8211;</p>
<p>क्या आप मानते हैं कि धन केवल बैंक बैलेंस या नकदी का ढेर है? क्या होगा अगर सच्ची समृद्धि धन से कहीं आगे तक फैली हो, जिसमें स्वास्थ्य, खुशी, शांति और उद्देश्य शामिल हों? हमारे साथ एक रहस्यमय यात्रा पर जुड़ें</p>
<p><span id="more-570"></span>that empowers you to attract limitless abundance in every aspect of your life!</p>
<p>In this profound video, we delve into the timeless teachings of ancient Indian Vedas, the esoteric mysteries of Egypt, Taoist philosophy, and even modern science, to understand how the flow of cosmic energy shapes your reality. Discover how your thoughts, emotions, and consciousness are the true architects of your world.</p>
<p>In this video, you will discover:</p>
<p>• The True Meaning of Wealth: Beyond material possessions, explore wealth as a multidimensional concept including health, knowledge, love, and inner peace.</p>
<p>• The Cosmic Energy Secret: Understand that everything in the universe is energy, and learn how to raise your vibrational frequency to attract abundance.</p>
<p>• The Law of Attraction: Grasp how your inner world molds your outer reality, and master techniques to leverage this universal law to your advantage.</p>
<p>• From Scarcity to Abundance: Learn to overcome limiting beliefs and fears, making space for unlimited possibilities to flow into your life.</p>
<p>• Potent Practical Techniques: Activate your abundance with actionable steps like gratitude practices, conscious intention setting, powerful visualization, and the art of giving.</p>
<p>• Consciousness Expansion: Recognize your inner power and learn to transcend your circumstances to open yourself to infinite abundance.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>क्योंकि हम &#8220;धन के लिए सार्वभौमिक खाका&#8221; का अनावरण करते हैं &#8211; एक प्राचीन ज्ञान जो आपको अपने जीवन के हर पहलू में असीमित बहुतायत को आकर्षित करने की शक्ति देता है!</p>
<p>इस गहन वीडियो में, हम प्राचीन भारतीय वेदों की कालातीत शिक्षाओं, मिस्र के गूढ़ रहस्यों, ताओवादी दर्शन और यहां तक ​​कि आधुनिक विज्ञान में भी गहराई से उतरते हैं, ताकि यह समझा जा सके कि ब्रह्मांडीय ऊर्जा का प्रवाह आपकी वास्तविकता को कैसे आकार देता है। जानें कि कैसे आपके विचार, भावनाएं और चेतना आपकी दुनिया के सच्चे वास्तुकार हैं।</p>
<p>इस वीडियो में, आप जानेंगे:</p>
<p>• धन का सही अर्थ: भौतिक संपत्तियों से परे, स्वास्थ्य, ज्ञान, प्रेम और आंतरिक शांति सहित एक बहुआयामी अवधारणा के रूप में धन का पता लगाएं।</p>
<p>• ब्रह्मांडीय ऊर्जा रहस्य: समझें कि ब्रह्मांड में सब कुछ ऊर्जा है, और प्रचुरता को आकर्षित करने के लिए अपनी कंपन आवृत्ति को बढ़ाना सीखें।</p>
<p>• आकर्षण का नियम: समझें कि आपकी आंतरिक दुनिया आपकी बाहरी वास्तविकता को कैसे ढालती है, और इस सार्वभौमिक नियम का अपने लाभ के लिए लाभ उठाने की तकनीकों में महारत हासिल करें।</p>
<p>• अभाव से प्रचुरता तक: सीमित विश्वासों और भय पर काबू पाना सीखें, जिससे आपके जीवन में असीमित संभावनाओं के प्रवाह के लिए जगह बने।</p>
<p>• शक्तिशाली व्यावहारिक तकनीकें: कृतज्ञता अभ्यास, सचेत इरादा सेटिंग, शक्तिशाली विज़ुअलाइज़ेशन और देने की कला जैसे कार्रवाई योग्य चरणों के साथ अपनी प्रचुरता को सक्रिय करें।</p>
<p>• चेतना विस्तार: अपनी आंतरिक शक्ति को पहचानें और अपने आप को अनंत प्रचुरता के लिए खोलने के लिए अपनी परिस्थितियों से परे जाना सीखें।</p>
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		<title>Meditation &#8211; A Fun Way</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2014 14:14:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sandeep Maheshwari is a name among millions who struggled, failed and surged ahead in search of success, happiness and contentment. Just like any other middle class guy, he too had a bunch of unclear dreams and a blurred vision of &#8230; <a href="http://www.bestoutofyou.com/editors-desk/334/meditation-a-fun-way/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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Sandeep Maheshwari is a name among millions who struggled, <b>failed</b> and surged ahead in search of success, <b>happiness</b> and contentment.<span id="more-334"></span> Just like any other middle class guy, he too had a bunch of unclear dreams and a blurred vision of his goals in life. All he had was an undying learning attitude to hold on to. Rowing through ups and downs, it was time that taught him the true meaning of his life.</p>
<p>And once discovered, he consistently kept resigning from his comfort zone and to share the secret of his success with the entire world. It is this very urge of helping people and doing something good for the society that inspired him to take the initiative of changing people&#8217;s lives in the form of <strong>&#8220;Free Life-Changing Seminars and Sessions&#8221;</strong>.</p>
<p>No wonder people connect with him and his mission of &#8216;Sharing&#8217; is now being actively propagated and practiced by millions. It is his diligent focus, the great support of his <b>family</b> and the faith of his team that keeps him going.</p>
<p>Apart from being a successful <b>entrepreneur</b>, he is a guide, a mentor, a role model and a youth icon for millions of people all over the world. People love and adore him for his great mission of making everybody believe in them and helping people to make their life &#8216;Aasaan&#8217; (Easy).</p>
<p>His unshakable faith in the divine power grants him strength to thrive. Being at the helm of success, it is quite astonishing to know that <b>money</b> does not lure him. And that&#8217;s why, profits don&#8217;t drive his organisation. It&#8217;s an emotional bonding with each and every person working in the company that matters for him.</p>
<p>Capable of building an entire new industry or an organization, he is satisfied to adhere to his self-made benchmark that states, &#8220;If you have more than you need, simply share it with those who need it the most.&#8221;</p>
<p>With a completely distinct aura than any other person of his age and stature, he rose above the rat race and broke through the age-old myth of &#8216;Life is tough&#8217; with his simple mantra &#8216;Aasaan Hai&#8217;.( its easy )</p>
<p>His web is : http://www.sandeepmaheshwari.com</p>
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		<title>How stress damages the brain</title>
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<p class="col_left"><strong>How stress damages the brain</strong><br />
Stress, pressure, fatigue, poor diet, alcohol, and drugs damage neural connections between the brain&#8217;s prefrontal cortexor and the rest of the brain. <span id="more-84"></span>When you are overtired or under intense mental or physical stress, the brain bypasses its higher,</p>
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<p>love and intimacy is the cause of all our happiness and sorrow; our well-being and sickness, and of all our pain and healing.<span id="more-41"></span> To give up one is to give up the other. If you deny yourself love for fear of the pain, you would undoubtedly be depriving yourself of all the ecstasies too. Surely the high that love alone can swing you to is worth the risk of pain?<br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->And then, there is a beauty to even </span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0760007">the pain that love brings. Its beauty lies in the depth of emotion we experience and to the way we respond to it. Some of our most beautiful poetry, songs and art have been the result of emotional turmoil resulting from rejection in love. In fact many creative artists work on perfecting the art of wallowing in melancholy. The world&#8217;s greatest love stories have ended in </span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0760008">pain and separation. Does that stop us from idolising Romeo &amp; Juliet, Tristan &amp; Isolde, Heer Ranjha or Paro Devdas? </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->There are those who say that love never ends. Two </span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0760009">individuals may choose to end a relationship, yet if they truly loved each other, the love lasts beyond their togetherness. It is an emotion that you can revisit and wrap around yourself as a comfort in times of loneliness and despair. Love imbues two individuals with a sense of wellbeing, happiness </span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0760010">and confidence that rest of the world cannot penetrate. And when they separate, why must they also give up all the positive strokes love brought them? </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->Whether or not you are able to smile at shared happy moments later and retain the positive feelings really depends on the way two individuals choose to end their relationship. </span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0760011"></span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->Dr Brian Weiss in Only Love is Real, the book Princess Diana read just before she took off on her last holiday with Dodi, explains that love is a powerful, reuniting energy. If </span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0760012">you believe in love as the be-all and end-all of our existence; as both the beginning as well as conclusion of the journey of life, you would agree that we need to go through any number of relationships in life because we learn our life&#8217;s lessons through them — “forgiveness, understanding, pa</span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0760013">tience, awareness, non-violence…We have to unlearn other traits, such as f e a r … a n ge r … . g r e e d … h at r e d … pride… ego which result from old conditioning.’ </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->If that’s so, then the very purpose of the beginning and ending of a relationship must be to enable us to learn valuable lessons. And, if we don’t understand that, we would be doomed to a series of loves that keep ending in grief! </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->Love sharpens our senses and mental faculties. It increases our capacity for giving as well as receiving emotion. Love brings with it enlightenment and a lightness of being. And when love creeps away, it leaves us with a depth of emotion that is just as meaningful and necessary to our existence, to the very fabric of our lives… </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->I hold it true, whate’er befall; </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->I feel it, when I sorrow most; </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->‘Tis better to have loved and lost </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->Than never to have loved at all. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->— Lord Tennyson </span><br style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 5px; line-height: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal" /></p>
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		<title>ACCEPT LIFE AS IT COMES</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Dec 2007 10:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Life is full of risks. There is a certain element of risk taking that is inherent in every venture we undertake<span id="more-33"></span> whether it is in business, or in marriage, in a profession or in athletics. We never have complete security within ourselves. For we know that every moment we live, our lives are in constant danger. A stray bullet may hit us, a car emerging out of nowhere may crush us, and a slip of the foot may result in our death. So <span id="Ar0270004" style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify;">life is unpredictable. We get no warning, we are afforded no red alert, and we get no second chance at life. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify;">And we might as well face the fact that our life is a dying life. As soon as we are born, we begin to die and every day we manage to somehow survive, we have only gained another step towards our grave. Each morning when we wake up from a refreshing sleep, we have died a little </span><span id="Ar0270005" style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify;">during the night. As we go through the streets of the city, we are dying a little. As we go about our business on the job, we are dying a little. In essence, we are living in the land of the dying. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify;">It will help you to accept life on its own terms rather than struggle against it. Identify and move from </span><span id="Ar0270006" style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify;"></span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify;">the limiting and conflicting, either/or,black or white,all or nothing illusory perception of life to an attitude that is open to all aspects of reality. We do this by accepting life on its own terms</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[What we have created individually and collectively is a world where we believe we are each a separate entity from one another and separate from the very planet that sustains us.    Because we believe we are separate, we go by &#8230; <a href="http://www.bestoutofyou.com/general-interaction/30/you-are-the-world/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>What we have created individually and collectively is a world where we believe we are each a separate entity from one another and separate from the very planet that sustains us.<span id="more-30"></span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->Because we believe we are separate, we go by the philosophy of “I have to look out for myself,” therefore, i will do whatever it takes to ensure i have enough of whatever i desire. If my desires impinge on your needs, my desires take precedence, because i am better than you. That is how our world is run today. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->We believe in a system that says i can go outside myself into the physical world and do the things it takes to provide me with the possessions that i lack to make my life better and make me happy. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->For too many of us this system does not work. Material possessions and being better does not seem to bring us inner peace and happiness. These concepts are elusive when you try to achieve them by going outside yourself into the physical world. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->Think about this: Inner peace. Just the very sound of it tells us where to go. You can’t find it outside of yourself; you have to go inside. You have to go to your inner source. The source that gives all of us unbelievable resources, strength and guidance is present in all of us to use on our life journey. We need merely go inside ourselves to find it. </span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0230004"></span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->The key is to go inside yourself and reconnect with your spirit. You see, we are all made up as a threepart being; mind, body and spirit. We are born into this world in perfect balance. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->As we begin learning the ways of our journey we try to live in this balance. But when we encounter the external world, we find that our parents, teachers, and friends, with the </span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0230005"></span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify">best of intentions, impart on us their interpretations of this physical world, along with all their rules and expectations. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->The spiritual side of us does not conform to these external parameters, but eventually we prioritise our lives around the external rules and expectations placed upon us by others and begin to lose the balance of our spirit in our day-to-day living. We become more and more controlled by the mind and the body. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->So the mind, controlled largely by the ego, and the body, which we identify as our entity, are subject to the physical world with the total ability to create and adapt to it as we like; that is, with “free will.” </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->And adapt we do. We buy into the separation mentality that says, “My body and existence is different and separate from yours, and so I must do what is best for me.” </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->Only by bringing the spirit back into the equation to create a bal</span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0230006">anced mind-body-spirit being do we come to understand that we are not separate at all, but that we are all one. Because we are one, what we do to another, we do to ourselves. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->It is the wonderful golden rule that we all know, but which we rarely live by: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->Wow! Can you imagine what our world would be like if we actually lived by the Golden Rule? </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->You can&#8217;t live by the golden rule if you thinkthat you are separate from everyone else. Only within the paradigm of oneness can the concept of the golden rule be achieved. This is what nuts and bolts Spirituality is all about. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->When you change the way you live your life you begin to influence others in the way they live their lives. It is in this conscious change that we collectively influence how the human race evolves. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->We are at a crossroads on this planet. We have created the ability to make this planet unlivable to the hu</span><span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify" id="Ar0230007">man life form. If we continue down the path that we are on now we could see this happen in the not too distant future. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->Our present belief system has taken us to this point in our existence. Only a change in our belief system will determine whether we will continue on a path of destruction or allow us to follow another path toward a more enlightened existence. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->You are totally at choice as to which belief system serves you. You can believe that you are separate from all things or you can believe that you are one with all things. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->You are always at choice in what you believe and how you create your life. Nothing has changed. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->The key is to be aware of and understand what serves you, and what does not serve you. It is then up to you to create your life by making conscious choices as to what serves you best. </span><br />
<span style="text-justify: newspaper; text-align: justify"><!---->   <!---->The choice is yours. It always has been and always will be. </span><br style="font-weight: normal; font-size: 5px; line-height: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal" /></p>
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